I have this friend of mine who just a couple weeks ago called me so excited. She said this guy she saw a long while back (about 1 and a half years) emailed her and after chatting a bit on one of those Instant Messege programs, was professing his love for her and telling her how he felt they were “soul mates”. So this girlfriend of mine, was falling right back into his game all over again. She was so excited that he was talking to her this way and feeling this way she thought that she would propose a meeting with him.
They got together and her being the good christian girl she is “only kissed” during that date. He told her how much he missed her and how she was the one for him. She was so happy when she called me I could not help but be happy for her. I knew she had had a rough bout being here from her home country for such a long time, away from her family and friends and finally it seemed that things in her life were looking better again for her on the “guy front”.
I had met this guy once and although he may be really good at his current job, I could not get a good handle on him personally. He seemed to be very secretive about his life, not opening up, either he was unable to trust or is not to be trusted. All I knew is that my dear friend really was into him and she was so happy, I was happy for her happiness…but reserved at the same time.
Well as it turns out the guy professed how “into her” he was and how they were “soul mates” and that when they kissed “it seemed like it was meant to be”. Well her date went awesome and she tried to call him once during the week. He had said they would see each other the following week. She tried to IM him and to no avail as he blew her off most of the time. She tried calling and he did not respond or answer the call. I just don’t get it!
As it turns out the guy had lied about a bunch of things to her and she found out and called him on it. But the thing that bothers me, is why say all those things to someone to get them thinking that this could be it for them and then just be such an $#@! I don’t understand men.