Have you every been asked: What kind of boyfriend do you want? I bet you have. For some reason that’s one of the first questions that I ask my single friends when they complain that they can’t get any boyfriend. It might seem like a very personal question but the answer can tell a lot about the person and most of the time they can’t answer me so it means they don’t know what they are looking for and of course that’s why they can’t find it.I was watching the movie “The Secret” one of my favorites ever and I got very shocked to realize that in order to apply the laws of attraction in our life, we should do exactly what I have been advising to my friends and applying to myself: a clear image of the person we are looking for, of the man we dream about. In the movie and on many other documentaries and articles I’ve read they all explain about how the visual image of the man you want into your life will help you attract him to you. The also think that we should show gratitude and happiness in advance to create the right mood to attract positive into our life.I can’t say I practice anything of that all day or every day, but now I try to be positive even when bad things are happening around me and think that I can achieve everything I set my mind to. I wish all of you can feel the same way.One of my very good friends was diagnosed with a brain tumor a few months ago, but with all the positive energy we projected, everything turned out just fine, she got an operation where they extirpated the tumor that fortunately was benign and didn’t cause any trauma. Now she’s almost recovered and I can’t stop thanking for that.I used some of the advices techniques they explain in the movie and I can say that my life has changed, I obviously haven’t gotten everything I asked for but at least I have a very hopeful mood, I feel that everything will turn out very good in my life and just the happiness of that thought make me smile.I actually made a list of the kind of boyfriend I want to date in the future when I’m ready. I’m not afraid of being very specific because I know I can find that man and when I finally find him I want to show him my list and prove once again that we can achieve everything we want. My list is very long and I’m not planning on sharing it completely, but I found that some of the qualities I look in man are the same that almost every woman look on a man. If you are single, I want to encourage you to make your own list and to help us add some more qualities that might be very important on a man.Here are some of the most common qualities a woman look on a man1. hardworking: I’m not talking about the “employee of the month” kind of man, but someone who works hard for what he wants, who wants a lazy boyfriend?2. clean: personal hygiene is more important to me that looks, I hope is the same with you. I personally want a man who is clean, not only with his body but with everything that surrounds him. Some men think that men’s room are supposed to be dirty and messy because they are “men”. I don’t think that’s true, I’m not asking for a designer’s decoration, but for clean cloths and bedsheets, not dirty cloths all over the place and never any food older than a month on the fridge.3. romantic: This can go without explanation. We all want a man who can take us to a candle light dinner, who gives us flowers on special occasions (I would go for flowers every day but let’s not get carried away), who writes love letters to us and specially who can say “I love you”.4. nice: This can seem very general but I have a clear image of a nice man very clear, to me a nice man is the one that treat us like ladies, who uses sweet phrases when talking to me, who opens our taxi door, who spoils me and specially who buys me little things to make me smile.5. funny: Not a clown, but someone that can make us smile when we are sad or bored. I once heard a phrase in a movie that really touched my heart: “Sometimes we just want to stay with the person that makes us smile”6. responsible: We are definitely looking for a man who takes us seriously, who is responsible in the relationship, who takes responsibility of his actions.I hope this list help you get started on your own private list and I’d love some more ideas to add to my list.